tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7596625442487645230.post662389836354404342..comments2023-10-16T04:50:13.687-04:00Comments on I Know...: In-Between PhaseMhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05509307036562185668noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7596625442487645230.post-71378069588282546322014-03-22T19:32:21.003-04:002014-03-22T19:32:21.003-04:00Blame my roomie! She asked me about him recently ...Blame my roomie! She asked me about him recently and planted the idea in my head. You're probably right, though. A friend actually brought up the topic yesterday also - how often does getting back together with an ex work out anyway? To be honest I still secretly hope I'll run into him somewhere, but for now I'm not going to text! :) He's a few years older than me and his siblings are marrying off, so I'm sure he's going to feel the pressure for wife-hunting mode soon if not already.<br /><br />As for the practical vs. emotional elements you mentioned, coasting along and seeing how things go sounds like a good idea for the time being. Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05509307036562185668noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7596625442487645230.post-62752466424634177232014-03-19T15:33:45.539-04:002014-03-19T15:33:45.539-04:00Even if we're ignoring the Rules, I'd advi...Even if we're ignoring the Rules, I'd advise against contacting Blue. He didn't seem to be THAT into you, you know? I know it's easier said than done, but it seems like Blue just wasn't into having a real relationship and that is obviously what you're craving.<br /><br />As for dating other men.... sigh. In theory, we ladies should all be doing this until a guy declares things official - not just exclusive, but with a label. But that sort of thing happens in romantic comedies and random anecdotes used by Rules writers (and other authors). <br /><br />In practice, you have to figure out if you think you are wasting time with Arms, or if you genuinely just want to date him and see where things go. So there's a practical element, and an emotional element. :)Sabrinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06711470733997117332noreply@blogger.com