tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7596625442487645230.post6983572523438085186..comments2023-10-16T04:50:13.687-04:00Comments on I Know...: Thoughts on dating multiple people...Mhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05509307036562185668noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7596625442487645230.post-31330073225426706782014-06-11T13:51:14.459-04:002014-06-11T13:51:14.459-04:00I haven't, personally - I've only done it ...I haven't, personally - I've only done it once when I reallllly liked the guy and was afraid I needed to nudge him. But it didn't work out, he wrote back something polite but I never heard from him again.<br /><br />Of course, I've had guys follow up the next day but then dropped off before a second date.<br /><br />Not to get Rules-y, but I do think a guy will follow up if he likes you!Sabrinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06711470733997117332noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7596625442487645230.post-15302241815401260582014-06-10T22:30:59.341-04:002014-06-10T22:30:59.341-04:00I'd LOVE to keep Dreamy around, but I feel lik...I'd LOVE to keep Dreamy around, but I feel like it's only going to happen if I put in the effort to follow up with him... He still hasn't followed up after our date, so I get the idea that he isn't that interested. I don't know if I'm comfortable feeling like I'm chasing a guy. <br /><br />Have you ever had good results being the first one to speak up after a first date?Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05509307036562185668noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7596625442487645230.post-81586232718067088602014-06-10T15:48:21.737-04:002014-06-10T15:48:21.737-04:00No, this is good! Like you said, these good dates...No, this is good! Like you said, these good dates remind you that nice guys are out there, even if it doesn't lead to anything. And even though you like Guy #1, until you're exclusive, you're both free to date others. So keep Dreamy around! You're still in the getting-to-know-you phase with both, and this will keep you from obsessing too much (which I am SO guilty of). Yay :)Sabrinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06711470733997117332noreply@blogger.com