Monday, September 8, 2014

Talking in my dreams

According to Dreamy, I talk in my sleep. I heard this as well from a guy from my past, so I wasn't too surprised; but since Dreamy is someone I really care about, I am a little afraid I'm going to say something I would be embarrassed about! I asked Dreamy, "Have I said anything specific so far?"

He told me, "You only say important things."

WHAT?! I was really scared now, but I put on my best "calm" face and asked, "Like what?"

He said, "Well, actually, it just sounds like gibberish." I was relieved, but I sure hope I don't give anything away in the future!

In other news, things have been progressing measurably. Sundays used to be our date day (and night), but for the past several weekends, he's asked me out (well in advance) for Saturday instead. I used to wonder about what he did on the "prime" night of the weekend, but now I'm so happy he's included me (and that I don't have to stay up too late on Sundays anymore). I've gotten to see what he is like when he's had a little more to drink - he's really cute and tells me a lot more about how he feels!

I've mentioned before that a recent coworker of mine is related to him. I was so curious about digging for Dreamy dirt via this girl, but I held back since he told me he hadn't talked to her about me. I no longer work with her, so I'm not in touch with her anymore. Well, this past weekend, he said that he let her know about me! It was a big deal to me, since he's really close to his brother - and this girl is his brother's fiancee. So this means his brother knows now too. Also, lately he's been saying that his friends ask him about his weekend plans, and he tells him he has "date night" with me. I think this is adorable, because it's the first time he's admitted to telling his friends about me.

I feel like I've grown a lot since starting this blog. I keep calm and level-headed about this guy, and I seemed to have found one who is a true gentleman and has a big heart.


  1. Dreamy sounds adorable! And I love the fact that he reserves "prime" Saturday nights for you! I think when a guy really cares and wants to spend time with you, he makes an effort to do so, rather than just 'slotting you in'.

    A friend once told me that in a good relationship, the person should bring out the best in you - being both complimentary and complementary!

  2. I'm really glad to hear that things continue to go so well!

  3. Glad that things are going well! It sounds like the pacing of this is good, not breakneck but steady.